To Separate or Not to Separate

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I was listening to a counselor* speak on the benefits of separation. He said one of the things a separation will give you is perspective on whether or not you want to continue the relationship. Like… what is the effect on you emotionally and physically being apart from your spouse?…

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Covert Emotional Abuse

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For years I did not understand the dangerous dynamic I was living in in my marriage. It wasn’t until I was manifesting full-blown symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress that I started to understand the seriousness. I felt it was my ‘Christian duty’ to stay in the marriage I had committed…

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Divorce is Sin? Says Who?

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“Divorce is sin… God hates divorce…” Most of us have heard this mantra so many times, that we’ve come to simply accept it as truth, without further scrutiny. I have read many books by Christian authors, considered experts, written specifically for people who have experienced divorce, which made this very…

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