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To Separate or Not to Separate

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I was listening to a counselor speak on the benefits of separation. He said one of the things a separation will give you is perspective on whether or not you want to continue the relationship. Like… what is the effect on you emotionally and physically being apart from your spouse?…

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Covert Emotional Abuse

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For years I did not understand the dangerous dynamic I was living in in my marriage. It wasn’t until I was manifesting full-blown symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress that I started to understand the seriousness. I felt it was my ‘Christian duty’ to stay in the marriage I had committed…

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When to Forgive

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Luke 17:3-4 “If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them. Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them.” An important issue that often arises when going…

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